Six Months Gone


Sign Says it AllI haven't been writing much about Lake Toba lately for two reasons: one, I'm still recovering from my unfortunate encounter with the water buffalo and two, there really isn't much to blog about when all you do is walk around, hang out with the locals, gossip, read, relax, talk some more, sing some songs and generally do nothing. But, I've got photos here from New Year's Eve and the amazing rain shower yesterday, so you can check those out if you like.

I realized today that it's been six months since I left home--Austin, to be exact--and a little more than three months since I left my job. I had a return flight from Singapore to Austin on December 24th, but clearly, I'm not ready to return. Bruised ribs aside, I feel great. The only adventure I've had in the last few days was the drive to Siantar, an hour north of here to get some cash.

More after the jump.

I play and Mike and Ricky SingI needed some money. I was running low. I took the hour long ferry off the island to the mainland, walked to the ATM and it was out of money. the bank said it would be several days until it was refilled.

Annoyed, I sat down at a restaurant/coffee shop next door and complained about my poor luck. A local with good English overheard my mumbles of irritation and offered to take me to Siantar, a city about an hour north--for a price of course. He asked for ten dollars. But I told him it was too much for the risk:

"What if there is no money in Siantar? Now I have even less money."

So, we agreed that I would pay $5 if there was no money and $10 if there was.

The drive was fantastic. We stopped on the roadside and fed the monkeys. Monkeys are just fucking cool! Anyone who can't see we have a common ancestor with them is just blind. But I digress . . .

We drove past rubber plantations, palm oil plantations and banana plantations. Siantar was a dump, but still, I got my money. The driver taught me several local words--Batak words, not Indonesia, mind you and I can now count to ten in Batak and say, "I'm hungry" and "I want to swim." How that is going to help me, I know not, but it was still one of those wild times when the cultural chasm that separates two men was bridged and I wouldn't trade it for the world. It also reminded me that I need to get off the backpacker trial much more often than I have and really mix with the locals.

Something I am going to do when I leave here in a few days.

As for being on the road so long, well sometimes I have guilty flashes, or premonitions about life in the 'real world.' Urges from civilization, I call them. As if something isn't quite right--"call your father," I think. "Why aren't you at work?" "I need to get home." Do something with my life." To name just a few.

But, I am growing out of them slowly. I quickly remind myself:

"My father is fine. I'm not in high school anymore."

"This is my job. Living life to its fullest."

"Home? Where is home? And why hurry? What do I have to return to? A storage shed full of books and furniture from a broken marriage?"

"This is my life. And this, here, now, is what I am doing with it."

This is pretty much my life right now and I'm loving it, as my friend Ricky would say.

And more is to come. I'll be leaving Toba soon, heading back to Medan and then Malaysia to await my ship to India and beyond.


Sean Paul Kelley January 2, 2009 - 12:39am

...magic mushroom/laundry? Dare I ask? :)

Celsius 233 January 2, 2009 - 8:04am

try them on New Year's Eve, but what with my bad ribs and all I passed. Maybe next time. Mind you, it's not my kind of thing, but at the same time, I always like to try a little of the strange local 'mojo' as it were.

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley January 2, 2009 - 10:01pm

FLESH OF THE GODS!

BON APPETTIT!

TimeWave 0 January 3, 2009 - 1:52am

take a day job.

Your conscience will be healed.

I did inhale.

Don January 2, 2009 - 10:05am

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley January 2, 2009 - 10:07pm

you want to experience a different life, right? you can party w/ the locals, you should try earning a living like the locals. not just rice planting for fun and exercise, but for wages. it could be a fascinating experience and a great story to tell.

dk January 3, 2009 - 8:14am

meant I should go back home and get a 'real' job, which I found to be an odd comment coming from Don.

That being said, you and he are both right. And, well, I have something up my sleeve I am not ready to disclose. But I will when the time is right.

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley January 4, 2009 - 8:41am

No offense intended.

I am enjoying hearing about places that I will never see.

But I think you'd get a better idea of what their lives are like while putting in a day alongside them in a field, factory, loading dock--whatever.

I find hard labor medicinal--moreso for the mind than for the body.

I have a brother that went on a spiritual quest as a young man. Worked in an Israeli kabutz. Also worked in Greece, and the island of Crete. All told he earned his way for about a year, living like the locals.

I think he's a better man for it.

I did inhale.

Don January 4, 2009 - 9:03pm

that I would take offense to. And yes, you are right. It is something I plan on doing.

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley January 4, 2009 - 10:15pm

reduction clarifies. this has has always been a prime life lesson for me anyway. i may not be completely awake yet this morning, but this was my first thought to reading this. my second thought are on the doors of opportunity presented; the fewer, the larger they loom. right now, we all have fewer than ever before. on the other side of them are ever vaster unknowns.

definitely get off the backpack trail and mix. deeply. maybe hit that laundry...

Zuma January 2, 2009 - 12:08pm

"Grow out of them"... I mean, you could, if you started drinking or getting stoned all the time and get your brain to mush, but then you would barely be human (perhaps that's fine, why being human? Monkeys probably live life to its fullest!). In any case, the foundations of who you are, are built very early in life. You can try to ignore them, but they'll just push stronger and stronger (especially at night, when you are not exhausted from a hard day of work). Somewhere, you know that an extended vacation can only be a temporary stage, not a meaningful way of life. Whatever "meaningful" means.

creativelcro January 2, 2009 - 1:28pm

I rarely drink or get high. And the mushrooms, well, see my comment to Celsius. I prefer to keep my wits about me, as my powers of observations are markedly deteriorated when inebriated, if you know what I mean.

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley January 2, 2009 - 10:03pm

What I meant is that, IF you did that, then you could "grow out" of anything (many people do that), if you could call that "growing". I know perfectly well what you mean when you say at times you get those thoughts about not doing something systematic with your life etc. But perhaps those thoughts are really part of your core, not something you can grow out of. Not sure if there is a middle way. I suppose that a successful writer who makes enough money writing might be able to do that. Six months visiting places and taking notes. Six months back in urban areas, writing them and taking care of business...

creativelcro January 2, 2009 - 10:46pm

the site have fallen a bit but I am still in decent shape. So, we'll see.

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley January 2, 2009 - 10:52pm

That's not how I remember our pet monkeys from my childhood. I remember getting bitten, and then getting many shots.

Synoia January 2, 2009 - 4:57pm

...around monkeys here and you'll definitely grow to hate the aggressive, nasty little buggers. :-(

Celsius 233 January 2, 2009 - 7:44pm

well, you are right. I was a wanderer since I was a kid. Just ask my Dad, who took me on all these amazing trips when I was 7, 8, 9, 10 years old. They do push back. And this is where they have pushed me.

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley January 2, 2009 - 10:06pm

proverb, that a man is rich in proportion to what he can live without.

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley January 2, 2009 - 10:07pm

The more you need and the more of a slave you are.

creativelcro January 2, 2009 - 10:41pm

i resisted computers for years.

my old high school buddy Jeff Cohen (class of 72) went on to be a traffic engineer for miami-dade county after college. it was in college he was exposed to computers. i worked with him in 1980 at the traffic department, and watched him gleefully carry around trays of computer punchcards. he'd always sell me on their glories when i thought he still hadn't hardly gotten all out of pencils he could've. i'd argue that pencils could do math, correspond, draw, etc even undo, and they only had one moving part and only cost a nickel. we argued this for years and years. 1993, he gave me a TRS-80 Model 100 and i was hooked. not a year later he excitedly told me Radio Shack was blowing RLX 1000's (286s, no hard drive, floppy only, half a meg ram) out the door for 50 bucks a pop. i got one and promptly hit the local BBS scene.

i "can't" live without pencil and paper, i know this. but computers likewise i fear.

(3 years later, i was living without power but was online thanks to candles, batteries, a phone line, and that M100.)

at work at the library, i constantly see titles that inspire and such that inspire and i walk up to a computer and jot down on my spew pile any such notes i may wish. this is how we live now. plus i have a M100 in my locker...

computers. i do have a problem with their seeming indispensability.
i love 'em, love 'em, love 'em. i love the coloring i can do on my line art. i love writing with 'em. i love HTML. and the web. and it is a web...

Zuma January 3, 2009 - 12:59pm

.... like 6 months gone. More like 6 months lived man. And to top it off you've recorded it with word and picture and then shared with others near immediately. You should still call your father though or at least drop him an email (since it's probably way cheaper).

The title of this post made me immediately think of this song:
Led Zep - 10 Years Gone
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHEaTbFrzMI

Silent Autumn January 4, 2009 - 3:21am

thank you for the kind words. It's hard to believe it's been six months, but you are right: six months well lived.

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley January 4, 2009 - 8:48am

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