Young Americans Abroad


I have to say that as a general rule I am usually very impressed by the young Americans I meet abroad in places like China, Thailand, Uzbekistan, Ethiopia and many of the distressed nations I've visited in the last fifteen years. However, I am never impressed by young Americans I meet in Europe, or any of the young Americans I met in Singapore. One thing above all describes them: entitlement complex. When I meet young Americans in advanced countries they think they know it all, but have never seen poverty like that of India or Ethiopia. And they have literally zero sense of humility, especially the young backpackers in Europe. Absolutely the worst. It's an entitlement complex gone mad.

That's why I read this post with interest. Our young Americans are going to be up against the best and brightest from nations that are hungry--in the sense of achievement. And our by far and away most of our young Americans know nothing of the world, contra to what Alex wrote a few weeks ago. This is very, very troubling.

And I don't know what the remedy is. At a time when our nation is gripped by xenophobia and our finest universities have to plead and beg Homeland Security to get world class students over here I think it spells serious trouble for the US in the future. After all, that's always been our great secret and virtue, taking the best of what the world has to offer and seducing them with the American dream. But what so seductive about it these days when they can get it 24/7 on the net, on TV and elsewhere? Why leave your home country, family and support system when you can do it right where you are?


Sean Paul Kelley October 11, 2008 - 5:34am

They represent the exceptionalism of America - the profound belief that America and everything American is superior to anything else created in the world, and therefore deserves to be gifted to humanity whether humanity wants it or not. The young people you meet in Europe are no different from their parents or grandparents, who live in exceptional ignorance of the rest of the world. That is probably the only really exceptional thing about America - its isolation and lack of curiosity. It is why the Pentagon can run its empire under the radar.

Even within Europe, where American students seem to be in perpetual party mode, I have met many thoughtful and interesting men and women who join their friends at the bars but also try to learn something about the language and culture. It is not a universal picture of hedonism with these young people. It sometimes happens that these youth, either while backpacking through Europe or on college tours, have an awakening. They meet an American student who is living there for a year and is fluent in the language and customs. They are in awe of such people, partly because they realize this person can really help them get around the city and negotiate what is otherwise a completely alien experience. They cannot comprehend what it would take to truly learn a language and live abroad.

My daughter is one of these "other" students. She speaks fluent Spanish and Arabic, and some French, and has probably visited 30 countries. She is currently studying Arabic in the middle east and hangs out mostly with locals her age anxious to learn English, or with similar foreign students, many of them from eastern Europe, Korea, France, Spain, Italy or Australia (Australians are especially itinerant and brave - you find them everywhere). There are, sadly, few Americans among the permanent foreign student population in the middle east, though she meets a fair share of Americans heading in and out of Iraq. These young people are the future citizens of the world, and they all have a propensity not only for languages, but an intense curiosity about other cultures. They also have trouble going home. Their old friends from high school and college can barely identify the countries in which they live abroad. They do not see America or its living standards as a seductive dream, and after awhile they long to leave the US again and explore life abroad. You can call that wanderlust, but the other side of wanderlust is unhappiness with one's own culture.

I'm going to get her to post some of her experiences her on the Agonist. She is quite the writer.

Numerian October 11, 2008 - 8:17am

If I weren't relegated to making this comment from an iPhone I would say more, but I will in a subsequent post.

“Is not our first thought to go on the road? The road is our source, our vault of treasures, our wealth. Only on the road does the ‘traveller’ feel like himself, at home.”
Ryszard Kapuscinski

Sean Paul Kelley October 11, 2008 - 9:27am

it's nothing that a good long Depression won't cure.

I did inhale.

Don October 11, 2008 - 9:52am

I've noted the difference in American expats/travelers too. When you find Americans off the beaten path of easy foreign travel you've found people who purposefully step out of their comfort zone to learn about the world and themselves. But Western Europe is not outside the American comfort zone; wait, for many of us it actually is...and that's the worst part.

When i lived in Salzburg, i would actually have American tourists approach me (sometimes wearing a Detroit Tigers cap) and do the loud, slow, "Do you speak English?" My response varied depending on my mood and the vibe i got from the tourist...but i was not above making the tourist feel stupid. I never understood how a town like Salzburg could put Americans off balance; in short, it was embarrassing. And it left me little room to argue to Austrians that we aren't all dumb and ugly.

What i saw in places like Russia was even worse, because the "dumb ugly" set simply congregate with each other...making the whole much dumber and uglier than the sum of its parts. And in that case, the Americans were supposedly there to learn the language and live within the culture.

Unfortunately, the entitlement complex gone mad crowd are also the ones who return sure that they understand the world perfectly because they backpacked Europe for two months...and they find it wanting. They will go on to positions of power and wealth, while the good ones continue to travel and learn and push themselves. But they will often keep their life changing experiences to themselves because the experiences humble them and set them on the course to explore more.

The way to tell is this: if the person returns home and enjoys it for a short period of time before getting bored and making plans to leave again, they've learned. If the person is just thankful to be home again, they're trouble.

P.S. is there anything worse than stepping out of Amsterdam's central station and being accosted by dirty, American hippies who've taken up residence?

Lex October 11, 2008 - 10:57am

Americans who live abroad keep their blue passport hidden in a leather passport folder. They don't want to be seen as American in airports or official places unless they have to show their passport. They enjoy blending in and revealing their nationality only as necessary. I wouldn't call it a matter of shame at all. My daughter will purposely tell people who are her age that she is an American because they meet so few, and she wants to present as positive an image as possible (an American who speaks Arabic! - it always gets a good local reaction). On the other hand, when you meet tourists, especially in groups, it may be best to lie low.

Numerian October 11, 2008 - 11:49am

Very true. The difference between those who are what they are and those who flaunt what they are. And the flaunters tend to be the first ones to pretend that they're Canadian.

Lex October 11, 2008 - 12:57pm

I used to greet packs of lost, hopeful tourists with "I don't understand English" in Norwegian. Most of the authentic Norwegians did, so the flocks were at least not far from someone's help.


"The mythical John McCain is an affable, straight-talking, moderately conservative war hero who is an expert on foreign policy" - Bob Herbert

nymole October 14, 2008 - 10:11am

It's pretty obvious if you teach at a college. But it'll pass. These are the same kids who are now completely shocked the world is not begging them to take a great job right out of college.

creativelcro October 11, 2008 - 12:31pm

I've taught high school in two different states, for over two solid decades. Not only are the students quite innocent (to use a more positive term than 'ignorant') of the world outside their little bubbles, but so are by and large all the teachers.

For example, we have had a drop in the Dow Jones Industrials during the last couple of weeks that is unprecedented in my lifetime. I have been expecting the market to go down since 2005, and it has been an uncomfortable two years, followed by a moderate satisfaction as it has fluctuated on its way down for the last year. But I was totally unprepared for hundred of points to be lost every day, followed by, not a buyback , but another drop of five hundred points.

So I was Thursday afternoon going around to my colleagues in school, sharing with them that this was a historic event, happening before our eyes. After an infusion by the federal government of several tens (or was it hundreds) of billions of dollars, intended to buck up the market, it lost six hundred and seventy points. The recession has begun. The economy will be broken for the next year, or several years. The election will go to the one who addresses the process of recovery from what may be a depression. At the local level, we're going to have several times the unemployed, the homeless, the hopeless.

But every single one of my colleagues, bar none, responded only one way to the what to me was historic news of an unprecedented break in the established financial structure of the country, if not the world: 'So, does this threaten my pension?'

Every single one.

If you ask me (of course, you haven't) for the cause of this sense of entitlement, I look beyond the low quality of our television programs or the sensational focus of our news reporters. Other countries have TV which is at least as bad, and their nationals are aware of a wider world. We in the United States have been cheapened and coarsened in our moral sensibilities by a century of growing militarism. We are entitled because we've (supposedly) "never lost a war'. We will no longer feel that the world owes us a living, I predict, when the Capitol in Washington lies in ruins and the Lincoln Memorial has been smeared with the feces of the troops of the occupying power. The model for progressive Americans of the last quarter of the nineteenth century, the Prussians, comes to mind.

The famous British sense of superiority to the rest of the world -- I used to sit on the veranda of the Boston Yacht Club, in Marblehead, Massachusetts, and listen to the British citizens tell one another, in accents thick enough to cut with a butter knife, how they had been living in the United States for twenty years but would never consider taking U.S. citizenship -- that sense that pervaded the entire society so that conversation among English intellectuals was in large measure a search for the perfect put-down, a search which infuriated the great American critic Edmund Wilson when he visited England at the end of World War Two, is now declining. It is still visible in the savagery and violence of the British soccer fans when they are at games on the Continent (and maybe at home, as well); but it has declined in the sixty years since India went its own way. It was based, was it not, on the fact that the Industrial Revolution began in a specific time and place, in Britain in the eighteenth century?

Well, the United States Constitution is the starting point for explicitly democratic institutions in modern history. The United States has a record of openness and tolerance of foreign elements in our population that is a great example to the world.

But we are now in our seventh decade of believing ourselves to be the leading nation of the world, entitled by military success to dictate to everyone else how to run their country -- that is, in a way friendly to our economic interests.

NO, IT WILL NOT PASS.

mmeo October 11, 2008 - 1:58pm

do get it:
http://tbafhao.edublogs.org/
(full disclosure: I work with these kids)

captain_sunshine October 12, 2008 - 1:34pm

I tend to stray off the beaten path (lately . . . Ryazan, Sochi, Sayan Mountains, etc.), so I rarely cross paths with any American expats, except in Kiev and Moscow, etc.

I did come across an American hippie on a bridge over a canal in Amsterdam. She was accosting people for change. I told her in Russian "I not understand", and she proceeded to lay into me with profanity laced tirade, repeatedly punctuated with fucking Russian bastard, which caused me to bust out laughing hysterically. Must have been all those Guinness's I drank. I am certain she was whacked out on something too, and it certainly was not Guinness.

liquid October 14, 2008 - 9:38am

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