The Place Of Promise Rings

Just as there are many varieties of rings, promise rings come in many shapes, sizes, and can be set with many stones. While diamonds are not necessary for promise rings, many such rings sport them, although they are small diamonds indeed when compared with the larger diamonds seen in engagement rings. But there are other stones that can be used in promise rings, and it is not even necessary to have the ring set with a stone at all. They are not yet considered a positively sure engagement, just the promise of one in the future. But the giving of a promise ring is a significant thing now. Because promise rings are starting to become more popular and more of a big business, it is important to note that most of them do, in fact, sport diamonds. This is because promise rings hold a more prominent place in the dating and marriage rituals of society than they did in the past. As the marriage age increases, and as the patterns associated with finding a single mate change, the promise ring gains more prominence as a step in the lengthening courtship associated with marriage. Promise rings are an almost necessary part of the long road to the altar (or the city office where the justice of the peace presides, as is becoming more and more common). One begins by seeing someone regularly, and then maybe exclusively. At this point, it becomes necessary for a commitment of some kind. Many couples are reluctant to jump into an engagement (which seems a very large commitment), but feel that the relationship is moving “to

the next level.” Enter the promise ring. Without having to say that for sure they plan to marry, the members belonging to the couple can say that they are very committed to each other and are considering marriage. Promise rings offer the promise that engagement will be considered in its due time. After the promise ring has been given, the couple can be secure in the knowledge that they will likely not have to consider being engaged for another year or two (or even three). And if the time wearing the promise ring has fulfilled the wishes of both, then it may progress to engagement. The place of promise rings is assured in the future of our society, as marriage becomes less of an object.