Restraining Order???

Q: I am 54 yrs, live in Massachusetts and currently have a 1 year restraining order against my husband for assault. The restraining order will expire in Jan. and I have to go back to court to request a 1 year extension - the most I can expect but no guarantee I'll get it. This was all handled in criminal court last Jan. He pled guilty and was convicted. He was ordered to pay all my expenses which I declined. Although I pay all bills, I am living in the house which is under both our names and I would like to continue to do so. I believe my husband has complied with the court ordered program, probation and has not violated the restraining order but I am fearful of his coming back here. I have been told there is a chance I can get a permanent restraining order by going through the Probate

court. I have no interest in pursuing or paying for a divorce and I'd like to just continue to assume all mortgage payments, maintenance, etc if possible. Would it be better for me to go to Probate court now or the criminal court in January? If I went to Probate and was unsuccessful, would I forfeit my chance for a 1 year extension with the criminal court in January?

A: Don't go by what you've "been told" or "heard" because your neighbor's cousin knows someone who thinks they had a similar case. See an attorney in Massachusetts. Many have free initial consultations. The above is not legal advice, for legal advice see an attorney.