Possible Workplace Harassment... Advice Please...

Q: I'm not certain if my issue qualifies as workplace harassment, so I thought I would seek advice in this venue i seek advice on whether in corporate America this even qualifies as harassment. Loopholes abound and management tends to circle the wagons when a claim is brought. Is he going too far? If the Human Resources Director backs him up when I speak with him, is the company then going too far? If I am terminated or ostracized because I speak up, is there any legal recourse? I am perfectly willing to speak with a real lawyer, but want to be sure there's a reason to.

A: For harassment to be actionable, it has to be founded in one of the kinds of unlawful discrimination. For example, if you were being harassed because you were black, that would be unlawful. In some places, anti-gay discrimination is illegal, but I doubt it is in Alabama. Generally, employees may be fired, even for bad reasons, as long as the reason isn't unlawful. Absent a contract to the contrary, there isn't much the employee can do. To be safe,

though, you should consult with a local employment attorney. I do not believe you can do much at this point other than keeping a careful account,(not on your office computer) of all of these incidents, with dates,times who else was present etc. Other than the cost of a few new ties you have not suffered any "damages" yet. If you are fired,or passed over for promotion, or if the harassment gets so bad you suffer physical or psychological damage,then you could take some action. In the meantime,make sure you get the proper credit from upper management for your work and understand (as I am sure you do) that overreacting homophobes are usually suffering from self doubt.