If You Send A Letter To The Opposite Sex, And The Letter Was A Little Hurtful; Would You Accept The Apology?

Q: If you send a letter to the opposite sex, and the letter was a little hurtful; would you accept the apology? I sent two letters to this guy, the first one was not as bad. I was trying to get a little clarity of why he needed his space. The second letter was a little more hurtful. I threaten to go on his job and tell ppl about his sexual behavior. Months has passed and the guy has been on my mind. I want to apologize for my actions. Do you think he will accept my apology or do you think he will get a retraining order against me for harassment? The guy meant a lot to me. I would really like to speak to him again, even if it's just as friends.

A: He apparently does not want to talk to you - or he would have. This doesn't just depend on how you feel

- but on how he does as well. Sounds like right out of the gate he wanted distance between you as that is what you said your first letter was about. (note he didn't and doesn't have to explain his feelings to you - they are his) Then when he doesn't respond you write him yet another letter? He's already showed you twice that he does not want a connection with you. Period. Now you want to write him and apologize? Hon - please see that no matter what you do or say this guy is simply not interested. YES...keep it up and I'm seeing "restraining order" in your future. Let it go - move on and take with you the lessons from the experience so you don't repeat the same wrong actions in the future.