Child Support .
Q: the fact that I don't feel I need his money, I decided not
to seek child support.
Recently I have found out that he walks around saying I blamed him, that
he is not the bio. father. He knows deep down that he is. I also found
out that he now has a well paying job. He spends all his money on
himself, buying all kinds of gold jewelry and expensive shoes. Let me say
I have never met anyone so self absorbed in my life! All this makes me
want to seek child support, I guess out of spite. I ask myself, why
shouldn't he live up to his responsibilities. I could put the money away
for my son's education.
It is my intentions not to spank my
child, but I know he would, because I have seen him discipline his own
nephew that way while babysitting. If he spanks my child this will
undermine the method of discipline I use.
Knowing him, he would probably use my son as a 'babe magnet' as some man
posted earlier as advice to another man (that's disgusting by the way, and
just shows that you don't have enough charm of your own).
Also, I may have to move out of province or to the US to find a job once I
graduate from Teacher College, doesn't visitation limit you from doing
this?
A:It's not worth it!! It doesn't sound like this guy is your image of the
father that you would want for your child, so do your child AND yourself
a favor and walk away from this man. Sure, it sucks to see him with all
of this money while you're struggling, but at least you're not having to
struggle with him, too. If you sue him for support, chances are that he
is going to get really angry and retaliate by asking for visitation and
possibly even partial custody (why not, he's paying for it , right?) and
the courts see that he pays his support, he's not an axe murderer, so
why